Let's talk "Rehearsal"
Try to imagine a Broadway show being staged without a rehearsal. It just doesn't compute. Too much time, money effort and talent have gone into getting the show to this point. The cast may be composed of experienced actors who have done shows before, but they haven't done this one. Rehearsing is what pulls it all together.
Your wedding is your equivalent of a stage production. You have been the producer, costume desiger and will play the staring role. With the help from others you have gotten this far. A rehearsal will make sure that all the players know their lines and where to go when. Make sure that you and your attedants pay attetion at the rehearsal. There really is a reason for this. Even the simplest ceremonies can benfit from a once-through. After all the time and effort that has gone into planning this wedding, no one wants to "wing it".
The officiant will take you through the procedures. He/She has presided over many rehearsals and understands the mood and atmosphere. But it is important to ensure that everyone - including readers, and singers - know their cues.
Be especially attentive to any children that are included in the ceremony. Not only should they practice their walk down the aisle, but also they should know that they are expected to be on their best behavior for the entire ceremony.
A half hour of everyone's concentration now will save anxiety on the next day.
Wedding Wishes
Jane
From the Bridal Mansion of Lisle
Member of Nationl Bridal Service
