In the midst of the fashion issues around gown
selection and accessory plans, the choosing of the
color and kind of flowers, the fun of gift registry,
there are some serious and less exciting aspects to
your wedding that must be handled. Chief among
them is the procurement of the marriage license
itself. As personal and unique and special as your
wedding will be, it is after all, a legal institution recognized
by society and the civil government which
rules it. You can't get married without the "blessing"
of society delivered in the guise of your wedding
license.
We offer you these important reminders.
• Since states and even some counties can have
slightly different rules, call or visit your city hall
to be sure you know all the details of the legal
requirements in your area.
• And don't wait until the last minute to make
this call. Most states require that you have the
license at least 72 hours prior to the wedding.
Keep in mind that marriage licenses can also
have expiration dates. The usual range is from
30- 90 days.
• Know that the couple must apply together and
in person. In some areas all that you may need
is a valid photo ID like your driver's license or
passport. In other areas you may need to
show a birth certificate.
• If you have been married before, you may be
expected to bring proof that your previous
marriage was LEGALLY ended. This can be
done with either a divorce degree or death
certificate.
• Be prepared to pay for the license that day.
Depending on the area of the country, fees can
range from $20 - $100.